What's your dealbreaker?

Deal breaker: 你的底線在哪裡? 11個兩性關係專家的建議。

朋友最近在找房子，難得看到喜歡的地方，卻需要煩惱簽合約、找室友等哩哩叩叩的事情。看不下去的我就說: 不想處理這些阿紮的事情很明顯就是你的deal breaker，你還要再繼續糾結嗎XD

講到deal breaker大家應該都很有經驗:

曖昧的時候看到對方牙齒卡菜渣，”阿，這個我不行”-deal breaker

被叭一下喇叭就路怒症上身的對象，”靠，害我人生差點登出”-deal breaker

看房子的時候，”阿，這間路衝”-deal breaker

選podcast時想聽悅耳的聲音放鬆，”靠，這個人講話好吵，掰”-deal breaker

長太帥沒安全感-deal breaker (咦?)

妳名字跟我媽一樣-deal breaker (真人真事!!)

隨便舉個例子都知道每個人都有自己的deal breaker/bottom line底線

其中最有趣的就是聽朋友找對象時的標準了吧

例如我聽過第一次見面就問對方要不要跟自己交往而嚇跑的(誰不會?

以下是兩性專家提醒選對象時，如果看到這些就要小心一點的11個deal breaker:

1. They won't address the issues that you present.

2. They've changed their mind about having kids with you.

3. They have a tendency to cancel plans at the last minute.

4. You are not on the same page when it comes to finances.

5. They're showing a lack of interest.

6. You don't have the same values.

7. When they get upset, they fight dirty.

8. They aren't over their ex.

9. There's no sense of vision.

10. There's a history of abuse with you or someone else.

11. There's a constant denial of a substance abuse problem or refusal to get help.

懶得翻中文了，反正you get the idea hey~?

如果身邊已經有對象還中了清單中講的怎麼辦?

沒關係，兩性專家的話聽聽就好XD

兩個人在一起還是你們開心就好啦吼~

最後，我就只想問一句:

What’s your deal breaker in a relationship? 你交往時的底線是什麼呢?

無論是你的或是聽過最荒謬的deal breaker都歡迎跟我分享!我想聽XD

參考資料:

11 of the biggest deal-breakers in a relationship, according to dating experts. -- Ni'Kesia Pannell

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